Hot Text Messages That You Can Send Her

First some fun, these chicks are hilarious. And they do have some good advice for you in terms of texting… this isn’t some definitive guide here, if you have a couple of minutes to burn, it’s worth a watch… They will make you laugh more than anything and I basically went to their website for steamy pics… ahem… okay what were we talking about…

Okay down to the serious article. Here’s a short article I’ve written for you to get a little more gas out of that text… Let me just put on my serious guy hat and begin… yes, this feels right, it all started…

…a little more than a decade ago, people were sitting at home patiently waiting by the phone for that special someone to reach out to them. Their heart pumping a little harder than normal anticipating the call and anxiously toiling over what he would say to make her think about him once they got off the phone. Communication has become a lot more streamlined over the years. From Instant messenger, to cell phones, to texting and social media chat, there are a myriad of options of ways to get in touch with her. However, one thing remains at the end of the day and that is no matter how you reach out to her, it is all about the words that you say that will keep you on the top of her mind. The same way a dull conversation in person can wreck a connection, the wrong moves while texting her can kill a moment as well. There are ways to learn how to craft your text messages when you text a girl that will get you noticed and keep her waiting to hear back from you.

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The first and most difficult step is getting her number in the first place, so if you have gotten a number and you want to text a girl that you are in to then you are already in a good place. Starting with a basic structure of texting, here are the top seven types of texts that you can send to her to get her thinking about you:

  • Subtle Romance – This is the type of text that insinuates that you are in to her as more than just a friend. You will take the masculine route to wooing her and just start to plant the seeds of getting her so see you as a romantic partner, and not just a friend.
  • Playful Sexuality – Commenting on her body or something that attracts you to her in a way that is non-threatening and will get her engine purring a little bit.
  • Fun Conceit – Girls love confidence on a man. There are precisely zero percent of girls who sit at home and think about how hot it is when a guy complains about his body or looks. Girls want a guy who is going to be uplifting and bring them up, not bring them down. So a little bit of playful cocky statements never hurt anybody, just make sure to not take it too far, because that can be a real turn off.
  • A Taste Of Sweetness – You want to avoid coming off like a sweet talker, but most girls really love when a guy drops a sweet and complimentary comment in to the conversation every once in a while. Truth of the matter is that most people like to hear about how great they are. Only problem is that simply texting a girl about how great she is all day is not enough to keep her engaged. That is why when you text a girl you should sprinkle the sweet talk and compliments as a transition in to other depths of the conversation, or as a way to end the conversation on a high note.
  • Calendar Commander – One of the most consistent ways for you to text a girl and get her to accept an invitation that does not feel like a stuffy and up tight invitation with a lot of pressure attached is to get her to put you on her calendar for events that do not necessarily feel like dates up front. If there is a public event that you and some friends are going to you can tell her that the carnival, or whatever event, is coming up on Friday and she should join you. This way there will be no stress to feel pressured in to the date, yet you will be able to branch off and get the alone time that you want with her.
  • Call To Action – Girls feel good when they feel in control. Incorporating a call to action at the close of a steamy conversation will give them the feeling of being able to call the shots when it comes to the next steps of your interactions. If you close your conversation with something like telling her that you would like to get to know her better, or this conversation might be more enjoyable in person, and then ask her to let you know if she is free on a specific night will give you the control of picking the day but make her feel in command of the outcome. Even though you know if your conversation is getting hot then she is in to getting together.
  • The Follow Up – Once you have finally gotten a girl to agree to get together with you, and it is clear that she is way in to you from all of the fun, sexy, and engaging text conversations that you have gotten in to the best way to ensure that she is thinking about you until you get together is the light and subtle follow up. You can use any of the aforementioned strategies and lightly incorporate them in to one text a day to get her thinking about you. Pestering the girl will be the fastest way to get her to flake, but waiting until the late afternoon to give her time to think about you, and then shooting her a fun, romantic, and playful text with sexual undertones will get her in a frame of mind to really look forward to spending time with you.

That was pretty good no? I kind of like this model of fun and serious. I’ll roll with it a little bit and see where it takes us. Anyway, I posted like three times today… hope you’re getting something out of this. Leave me a comment on the content.

I’ve also started this other website called It’s got some stuff on there about writing a good profile for online dating and such…. later all…


Text a Girl: Old Site, New Ideas.

Dan here — glad you dropped by.  Just got this site up and I’m going to start loading it up with all the goodies that you could ask for.  But first, a short intro into why I’m building this website.

First, how I got it.  Well I was lucky–I love reading texts messages that people send eachother and so this is my tribute to all the texts that have ever been sent.  I guess that’s a lot.  Anyway forget that, the real reason is this–I’m like you guys.  In the past I have tried a bunch of times to connect with certain ladies, some of them I really thought I had in the bag.  But, the problem was I sucked at talking to ladies, I sucked at being confident in front of them.  I literally, and still do sometimes, freeze up when I’m confronted with some incredibly hot lady that just sneaks up somehow onto the radar.

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Cute shot of “my buddy” newly engaged to “my buddy”…

Like this one girl Rachel, I met her when I started working at this new office.  We both started on the exact same day so it was great because we had to do all of our inprocessing and crap together. Anyway, we were doing lunch and hanging out here and there, nothing serious.  But we worked in different offices and we ended up texting a lot.

Well, to make a long story short.  I was just overtexting.  We were going back and forth with texts all the time, the problem was, whenever I asked her out she would like totally not respond.  It was like we would be having a chat, then I would say something lame like, “You want get a drink tonight? What are you doing?”  and she would just not respond.  Then like a day later she would send me some text about work, and I would just get right back on the friendzone treadmill.  Needless to say we are still friends, and I never did get her to hang out with me on my terms…

So that’s a failure, since then I’ve looked at some guides and stuff, and I’ve learned a lot about the do’s and don’ts and especially having some kind of game plan.  And not some creepy one, what I’ve learned with all the crap I was reading and watching, was that girls are attracted to guys with confidence and who know what they are doing.  I’m not always that guy, but I am sometimes now at least.  Some things work and some things just don’t work… and generally if you think it sucks then it’s probably not going to work for you if you try some approach.

I’m here to do a couple of things, and they are a little self serving cause I do get a lot from helping other people in different areas of my life, and if I can make you guys a little more confident, or a little more prepared for the next “encounter” with that hot babe, then I’m game.  All I ask from you is that you leave a little feedback!  Comment on my posts, cause that will drive me to do more.

I also give you this pledge, and I know this is the internet, so you have know idea who or what I really am.  I could be a toothless hooker from compton trying to score some crack so I can do it anally with my lesbo roommate with crabs… but I digress… My pledge is that I’m going to try to keep this site free of crap, ads for shit that doesn’t work, lies about products, things that are just lame.  On the other hand, I am going to show you things I like and that I have used, I’ll review them for you and if you have something you want me to review or get an interview with a product owner, I’d be happy to do it.  I’m going to start out with two things I know well and love,

1.  Magentic Messaging — I’ve already put up on post about this product.

2.  The Tao of BadAss — I don’t have anything up yet but I will… This product is good for all around relationship advice, personal development, and confidence.  I know it sounds weird sometimes but making yourself better is definitely going to attract the ladies… I mean really better.

The other thing that I’m going to do on this website, aside from posting product reviews, is that I’m announcing my own product launch.  Coming out next year.  If you sign up for my product, I’ll give you access to the first few modules FREE.  So leave me your email address in the form on the top right, and I will send you some info on the launch before anyone else!

Okay, that’s it for my first post.  Take care guys!  Remember to leave me comments, good or bad I read them all.  Also don’t forget to let me know what dating products you’d like me to review.  This site is focused on texting, but I’ll consider buying some other products that you’re interested in.

later all,


Flirting Texts? Get the top 3 best Flirty Texts.

There are certain tips that you will need to follow when texting a girl you like. Every guy needs to know how to talk to girls, and when you learn some of these things even you will be surprised as to what can happen. There are a lot of different ways to flirt through text messaging, but you will want to start with sending short simple messages like “Hey there”, just to let her know you’re interested.

Play it Cool

Not going overboard is something that will be very important, so you will need to remember to limit how often you text the girls you want to get with. Remember that most girls like guys who are assertive but not desperate, so keep in mind that you will need to play it cool most of the time. Sending her jokes every once in a while is another good idea you might want to consider, because it will make her laugh and she will know you care enough to send it to her.

Use Emoticons

Emoticons are great for flirting because that can convey a lot of different emotions, everything from happiness to silliness. You will want to remember to use them when they apply, so look at what your phone offers in the way of emoticons. They just might end up getting you a date with the girl you viagra without prescription like.

Ask Her Questions

When you are sending the girl you like text messages, make sure to ask her things about herself like favorite hobbies, foods, music, etc.

This will give you all the information you will need so when you finally have a date with her you will know exactly where to go and how to act. Girls usually like it when they get the chance to talk about themselves with guys, so always remember to ask her these types of questions when texting.